The moment I sent word out that I wanted a man in uniform to be my new Fantasy hunk, I was introduced to
Neal Matoga who is a son of a retired cop and who aspires to “Protect and Serve” our community. Oh yes, I would love to
have him on board. I couldn’t wait to meet him. Neal is personable, tender hearted towards kids, a great guy, sexy, very
health conscious, and loves to work out in the gym. So ladies, here’s Neal...
Doreen: “Hi Neal, good to meet you finally. I am thrilled to have you on board. I love your green eyes, they are beautiful.”
Neal: “Thank you. I’ve only seen your pixs on your website and listening to your discussion on the radio, so I have been
looking forward to meet you too.”
Doreen: “You aren’t from Toronto, so where did you grow up?”
Neal: “St. Catherine’s. It’s a pretty town.”
Doreen: “I was told that your father was a cop and you’ve always wanted to be one.”
Neal: “Yes, that’s right. I’ve always wanted to be a cop, mainly because my father was a cop. He is a great guy.
I look up to him, he is my all time favorite person. He is a man of his word. He always said to me, “Never break promises and
always be honest to people.” He has a heart of gold, very helpful and selfless. He has his head on his shoulder, understanding
and open minded. I’m like him, a handy man, love fixing things, building and decorating. He is a good role model and I want
to be just like him. I want him to be proud of me.”
Doreen: “That’s wonderful. Your dad certainly inspires you a lot. Do you have any siblings?”
Neal: “I have an older sister. We are a small family.”
Doreen: “So is your mother still working?”
Neal: “My mom was a professional decorator and her business is now owned by my sister.
Both of them are great and I love them dearly.”
Doreen: “Have you worked in another job that is related to what you are aspiring to be?”
Neal: “My friend recommended that I should teach in a military school. It would be a good experience for me
and my resume. Since I wanted to be a cop and have a teaching degree, I decided to give the military school a shot.
I taught business and career studies. My students were boys who were there against their will. They had gotten into trouble
with the law or out of control with their parents, so the court sent them there to learn discipline and to carry on their studies.
It took me quite some time before these boys learnt to trust me. Seriously, not all of them were bad. There were many who were amazing. Some of the parents were so wealthy that
they picked up their kids in helicopters. However, many didn’t know how to deal with their kids so they expected the school
and teachers to fix the problem. It was unfortunate that some of these kids became worse off after they came to the school.
They got into drugs, fighting, drinking, playing pranks and all kinds of bad stuff. Some would skip school altogether and got into
lots of trouble. What they all wanted was parental attention. I wanted to help them, be a friend and to guide them. ”
Doreen: “That’s so sad for the kids. It’s so important for parents to be good role models and spend quality time with
them.”
Neal: “It was rewarding to know that I had made a difference in their lives. A few had written to thank me for helping
them during their time there. I am most touched by their messages. In fact, there was one time someone had stolen my book
and I was disappointed about such behavior. One of the good kids found out who did it, went out to look for the culprit and
kicked the ass of him. He got the book back for me which I was really grateful. There were a also few kids who wrote to
thank me for the exercise books that I bought them out of my own pocket. They realized that I really cared about them and
they looked up to me.”
Doreen: “So you had to have some military training before teaching in that school and before training to be a cop?”
Neal: “Yes. I did 100 km hike at Fort George, Niagara. Camp at night, march all day long. I was in charge of paint ball
exercises and we used army tactics to fight. I also ran the weight lifting club. 2-3 times a week, I volunteered to teach kids. As
for training to be a cop, I went through the training as an Auxiliary officer in St. Catherine before training in Toronto. We had to
do 1 ˝ mile run, physics, math, learn to shoot with a gun, learn to restraint criminals, and self-defence. When I become a cop,
I would love to specialize in either homicide, crime analysis or ETF (Canadian S.W.A.T. team).”
Doreen: “How long do you spend exercising at the gym?”
Neal: “I train 5-6 times a week, 1 ˝ hours per session.”
Doreen: “Obviously you love pumping and exercising.”
Neal: “Yes, I feel exhilarated and high when I exercise. I could feel the blood pumping through my veins and my muscles,
it makes me feel like nothing can stop me. All my worries are gone and nothing is going to bother me. I feel I can conquer the
world as the oxygen goes into my body. My mind is so connected with my muscles that I feel better, bigger and positive. I have
a sense of completeness. Pumping is a good way of getting rid of stress and I feel 10 times better inside out.”
Doreen: “What do you look for in a woman?”
Neal: “My ideal woman is smart, sweet, kind, someone who is willing to be there for me. Have long legs, nice butt, dark
hair and wants to be with me, whether it’s good or bad times. Also she doesn’t mind my quirks.”
Doreen: “Have you given any thoughts of how you would propose to your girlfriend?”
Neal: “I would love to take her on a romantic trip or a dinner on the beach at sunset. We will hold hands and I will go
down on my knees with the sunset behind us. If it were the middle of winter, I would take her on a sleigh ride. I would give her
my maternal grandmother’s wedding ring. She is my favorite grandma so her wedding ring is doubly special for me and my
girlfriend. Would you like to hear how my grandparents met?”
Doreen: “Yes, I always like to hear romantic love stories.”
Neal: “My grandmother was a little English woman who met my grandfather at a bar during the war. They saw each
other as she was walking down the stairs. She was so taken by my grandfather that she fell down. She got up angrily and
asked, “Who put the &^%* stairs here?” It was then that my grandfather fell in love with her. They were married for 55 years.”
Doreen: “What a funny love story.What about your parents’ love story?”
Neal: “My parents eloped. They didn’t have a honeymoon. Since they lived close to the
Niagara Falls, about twenty minutes drive. They went there after their wedding. So it wasn’t considered a honeymoon but they
had a great time.”
Doreen: “I thoroughly enjoy talking to you. It is apparent that you and the men in your family are very romantic and
wonderful. I wish you luck in all your endeavors.You would certainly make a good cop and a great husband.”
